Sunday, January 17, 2010

KEEP ON SURVIVING, CHOOSE A NEW DESIRE – BFF 29



Love


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It’s what she desired most

She hoped

She dreamed

She waited patiently for love

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She found it

It came unexpectedly

It was as if her knight in shining armor came through to save the day

Her Disney fairy tale finally came true

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Dreams of white

Silk and lace

Gorgeous flowers

Beautiful music

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It was not her innermost desire

Her innermost desire to be loved blinded her to the facts that presented themselves

Through her bloody tears and busted jaws, she found a new strength and a new desire




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She learned not to hope and dream for love

Love is simply a socially constructed concept

Definitions vary from person to person

She can only define what she calls love, not how others she comes in contact with define the term

In her mind, love involved another person

She chooses to label herself a survivor, not victim

Survivor gives her a sense of strength

A sense of empowerment

She was able to see her situation for what it was worth

And end it

A victim would’ve stayed

A victim would’ve helped the abuse to continue

A victim would’ve seen themselves as unworthy of anything more, with no possible way out

She saw herself as worthy of so much more

Now, she chooses happiness as her innermost desire

Her definition doesn’t involve a second person

Only herself

And if happiness brings love, she knows it will be her personal definition of love and not another’s













The BFF 29 inspiration:
Begin your story or poem with this line:
"It was the one thing he (or she) desired the most."
*Blogs must be posted by midnight on Sunday, January 17th*

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